In the midst of a holiday season marked by record-breaking spending, the gift of Internet-enabled devices is poised to dominate households across America. However, as the allure of tablets, phones, wearables, and game consoles brightens the eyes of children, a shadow of potential online threats looms. The surge in online exploitation cases involving vulnerable children has prompted a stark warning from Raven, a dedicated organization safeguarding children from victimization.
John Pizzuro, CEO of Raven and former Commander of the NJ Internet Crimes Against Children Task Force, emphasizes the need for parents to understand the risks associated with online activities. “Devices make really fun gifts, but it’s important that parents know how to protect their kids online, and that means putting some guardrails in place,” he advises.
Before gifting an Internet-enabled device this holiday season, consider these three essential tips to ensure your child’s safety:
1. Establish Clear Boundaries: Creating a Digital Code of Conduct
Before entrusting your child with an Internet-enabled device, it’s crucial to establish a comprehensive and easy-to-understand set of guidelines – a digital code of conduct, if you will. These rules should encompass a range of behaviors, from acceptable online interactions to the types of content they can access. Encourage an open dialogue with your child about the potential risks associated with internet usage, discussing topics such as cyberbullying, inappropriate content, and online predators. By fostering an environment where your child feels comfortable discussing their online experiences, you can build trust and ensure they are equipped to recognize and avoid unsafe situations.
2. Utilize Parental Settings: A Technological Shield for Responsible Digital Exploration
Parental control settings are not just a tool; they’re a technological shield that empowers parents to actively participate in their child’s digital journey. Beyond the basic function of limiting screen time, these settings offer a nuanced approach to managing your child’s device usage. Take advantage of features that allow you to monitor the apps they download and use. Implement restrictions on certain types of content and establish designated usage hours. By doing so, you not only provide a safeguard against potential online threats but also instill responsible digital habits in your child. Remember, parental controls are not about restricting freedom but about guiding and nurturing a healthy relationship with technology.
3. Avoid Strangers and Location Sharing: Navigating the Digital Wilderness Safely
In the vast and sometimes treacherous expanse of the internet, teaching your child to avoid strangers and refrain from sharing their location is akin to providing them with a digital compass. Stress the importance of limiting online interactions to people they know in real life. Whether it’s chatting on social media or engaging in multiplayer online games, remind your child that not everyone online has their best interests at heart. Actively monitor their social media accounts, friends, and followers, and encourage open communication about their online activities. Regular check-ins create an ongoing dialogue that allows you to understand their digital landscape and address any concerns promptly. As parents, consider yourselves the navigators guiding your child through the digital wilderness, ensuring they traverse it safely and emerge empowered.
Raven is a 501(c)4 organization that protects children from victimization by raising awareness of the threat of online child exploitation, increasing resources and funding to law enforcement, and lobbying for policy changes on the local and federal level.
Raven, a 501(c)4 organization, stands as a bulwark against online child exploitation. Founded by the nation’s leading child exploitation investigators, the organization brings together retired ICAC Commanders, sex offender treatment providers, technology innovators, and policy experts. Raven is committed to leveraging years of law enforcement experience to protect children by raising awareness, increasing resources for law enforcement, and advocating for policy changes at local and federal levels. As the digital landscape evolves, so must our commitment to safeguarding the well-being of the next generation online.
